Romance and Seduction are not just for the beautiful people.
You would think it was obvious. But how many women justify their single status by saying, “I’m not good-looking enough to attract men”?
Personal appearance stands at no.1 in the dateless woman's excuse book! Trying to justify your pathetic/non-existant love-life by bemoaning your luck in the Genetic Lottery is only an excuse.
“Boo Hoo!, my parents didn’t pass on the blond haired, come to bed eyed,luscious lipped seductive genes. Poor me, my chances are almost non existant”
If this were true then 99% of ALL women would be condemned to a life of celibacy, loneliness and total misery!
Thank god it isn't true.
Most of the women in the world are completely ordinary looking, and yet they all get guys. Only a fraction of a fraction of the US female population can dream of being a supermodel, and yet somehow the rest of us find loving, good men who love the way we look, talk, and act. Appearance can’t be the whole story. And it isn’t.
Guys adore women in all their shapes and sizes. Just being female is enough for most. However, most men will admit that they prefer a woman who takes care of herself: eats right, exercises, keeps her nails trimmed, styles her hair, and pays attention to what she wears. They believe that a woman who pays attention to the exterior details will also pay attention to the details where they count: in the bedroom.
Because seriously—and this is a fact that gets forgotten because neither gender wants to admit it—the only thing most guys care about is whether you will be good in bed. A woman who smells lovely, has shiny hair to spill over the pillow, and is comfortable with her body will attract men hand over fist, while a couture ice princess who spends hours on hair and makeup screams "untouchable" and finds that she intimidates all the nice guys and attracts only players.
The fashion and cosmetic industry have a vested interest in making us believe that our appearance is all that stands between us and the man of our dreams. The more they keep us chasing the holy grail of beauty, the more money they make.
And, of course, you can never be beautiful enough.
Romance and Seduction are not just for the beautiful people.
It’s for those of us who are average and ordinary in the looks department, too. That’s because the majority of people in this world are quite average and ordinary, giving us a huge pool to choose from.
If YOU are going to spend the time and personal investment into making yourself irresistibly attractive to men, I have a word of advice. Don’t just focus on your appearance and ignore everything else. I know that it’s much more fun to buy new clothes and get makeovers than ask yourself some serious questions about the kind of energy you put out or the kind of relationship patterns you've established, but for your own sake it’s essential.
Attracting your dream man is about much more than wearing the right clothes and memorizing the right things to say and how to say them. Attracting your dream man is about putting yourself out into the world in a positive, loving way, and having faith that the right man will be drawn to you as surely as a moth is drawn to flame.
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